The pains of letting go!
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It could be very painful trying to let go of your partner especially when he/she has fallen out of love with you. You believe you are still in love with him/her so now you want to fight for your relationship instead of letting go.
Fighting for your relationship is not a bad thing neither is letting go of a relationship a bad thing especially if it's toxic.
Let me tell you all a story, I know of a young lady who was in love with this guy out there, I came to a point where the guy fell out of love with her and wanted to end a relationship at all cost broke up with her the first time she kept begging, the guy came back to her out of pity.
Now the guy is back to her but it's out of sympathy and because of that the guy is free to do anything not caring how she will feel, because he believes that she will accept whatever she sees just so she doesn't cause trouble and they break up again. And yes the guy was right.
First of all at points you lose your self-respect because you don't want to let go of a relationship that is not favouring you a relationship that the love is one-sided.
When it is clear that your partner has fallen out of love with you holding on doesn't make you a brave person, to me it makes you a coward. A coward in the sense that you've chosen to give up yourself to suffering when you can take control of the situation at hand.
I know often times we think of how life will be for us without this person in our lives but how about how life was for you when this person did not come in yet, was it really that bad?
Okay let's say it was that bad, why not see that as a challenge, let me break it down, when someone falls out of love with you they're simply challenging you to know your worth, when you fell to let go of that person that is when you fail to realise your worth.
Meanwhile letting go and enduring the pain of heartbreak, time wastage and all, takes you on a journey to discovering your self-worth.
So today I'm telling you the letting go of a toxic relationship is for your own good.
Know your self-worth
grab your self-dignity and walk out of that relationship.