Dude-Approved Presents: What Guys Really Want

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For years now, there’s been a controversy going on in Ghana and Nigeria and it’s all about how ladies get boxer shorts and singlets for their guys as gifts on special occasions. Now, it’s more like a ‘justice for men’ movement in these countries.😂😂

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Before I begin , please pass by @rubilu‘s entry and laugh your day away. Especially in the comment session.😂


Now let’s talk. What is a gift? From what I understand, a gift is something you give to someone from your heart and willingly. A gift can be given on a random day or on special occasions. Let me point out once again that a gift is supposed to be from your heart. I remember sometime ago the same guys complaining about ladies giving them boxers and singlet came out to say that ‘it’s the intention that matters’ and it’s actually true. No gift is too small or too big, the gift is more in the intention than what is even given out in my point of view.

Personally, I’ve never given a guy whether my partner , friend or family boxer shorts or singlet as a gift. I feel it’s too low of me because they wouldn’t give me same if they were in my shoes. I believe that even though the intention matters, I wouldn’t give something like that out. I’m a very attentive person and I pay attention to details a lot so I’d rather get a guy something I feel he really wants and is always talking about getting or something I know he would like. Men are not difficult to please as compared to women. @yahuzah will always tell me that he’s very cheap and a lady can even woo him with food.😂

Guys don’t want anything big as a surprise but that doesn’t mean you can’t give them anything big. Just be thoughtful in your giving. Every guy has his style and if you really understand him , it wouldn’t be difficult getting him something nice. If you don’t know what to get him you can ask him. I really don’t find anything wrong with that because I’d rather ask you what you’d like than get you what you wouldn’t like but wouldn’t be able to reject.

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Most ladies complain about how they can’t seem to come up with what to get for their partners and upon hearing that I like to believe that they have never given their partner a gift before because if you have the habit of giving your partner gifts, getting him another shouldn’t be a problem. A little tip to help you out my dear lady is to pay attention to the little things he rants about. Be it getting a new slide, charger or what have you. If this doesn’t work, then here are a few gift suggestions for you. This is free of charge from me to you, no consultation fee.😂

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Aside weird guys, every guy likes watches. Get a guy a watch and he would think about you anytime he wears it. He would even show off that a lady got it for him. When I say watch I don’t mean the fake ones, quality watches only please. You can also get him a shirt,a shoe, a book, slides or even a tie, it makes more sense that getting him a boxer.😂 If you can’t get him any of the above stated, you should consider getting him food, most importantly his favorite food.

Most guys say ladies don’t want to spend on them that’s why they give them boxers and singlets as gifts but some ladies actually don’t have the money to get you big stuff. Guys shoes are costly and someone with a small budget obviously can’t get you that. But some ladies can have the money and still not get you something decent.

Also, before I forget , if you’re a stingy guy and you’re out there saying no boxers and singlet this year then I’m sorry to tell you, boxers and singlet for you this year again.😂. Ladies treat you how you treat them so if you can’t spend on them , they wouldn’t also spend on you.

My dear ladies, this year let’s say no to boxers, singlets and handkerchiefs. Break that bank and get him something nice this Val’s day.👏❤️


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Let say no indeed to handkerchief, singlet and handkerchief

😂😂I’m with you on this.

Yahuzah is cheap??🤣🤣🤣
I’m surprised you’re telling us this for free , are you sure this is Nhaji talking?😂
Let me go and look for some quality watch for my man

Ermm I forgot I don’t have one.

😂 don’t mind this Nhaji Abena. Do you believe her?

If you don’t have one, I’m here. Give me that watch baby 🥰😂

Your babe will hear this😂

😂 I’m babeless

She is already minding me.😂

😂😂😂this is free information for the ladies on hive. Yahuza is a free man.

You can make Yahuza your man and get him a watch.

LoL! I am feeling bad right now because even the boxers and singlet, no lady has ever gotten one for me🤣🤣🤣

But you made a lot of sense up there, let's even keep the issue of gender aside, if you are giving someone something, it should atleast be something worth remembering not some cheap stuffs that might even get the person irritated at the end of the day.

Well, you said exactly what most men like, and if Incase you don't know what your spouse, your lover or friend wants, there's no harm in asking them.

LOL! I am feeling bad right now because even the boxers and singlet, no lady has ever gotten one for

Let’s gather around and cry for our brother.😂😂😂 don’t worry, I will get you boxer and singlet soon.

But you made a lot of sense up there, let's even keep the issue of gender aside, if you are giving someone something, it should atleast be something worth remembering not some cheap stuffs that might even get the person irritated at the end of the day.

Do unto others what you want others to do unto you. We should give what we wouod like others to give us.

Well, you said exactly what most men like, and if Incase you don't know what your spouse, your lover or friend wants, there's no harm in asking them.

Some people say they’re shy to ask but whats there to be shy about?

LoL... Being that I haven't received any gift from any lady before, if you give me boxers and singlet, I won't hesitate to collect o🤣🤣 atleast let me break the yoke

You are right, it's a do me, I do you something LoL. I don't see anything wrong in asking o.

Don’t worry, I’m a correct girl. I’ll gift you something nice

Awnnn..!!! I'll waiting for it then🥰

It’s on the way.😂

LoL... Whining

😂😂 Ei so you’ll just sell me like that to hive. I may like food but before you get me to eat your food it’s not easy😂.

It’s not difficult to gift a man. Just show effort and show us there’s some thought in the gift instead of boxes 😂. And don’t gift a man food. Like come on 😂.

😂😂please don’t lie. It’s easy

Today you’re saying don’t gift a man food. Nipa bi y3 cobra.😂 I will gift you food, if you like don’t take it and see.

Keep lying to yourself 😂. I won’t take, will you force me to take it? 😂

I’ll use it to saa you.😂😂

Guys don’t want anything big as a surpris

See, come. Don't say this one near me oh. Because we don't used to talk?? Take time!

As we were saying. Your head is correct jare. See better idea here. I'd any lady mention boxers this year, she will collect. Have they seen where guy is giving dem panties and lingerie before??

😂😂😂but do you want something big with plenty balloons and all? I didn’t know you were a lover boy.😂

By now they’ve already ordered your boxers and singlet so you might as well order lingerie.😂😂

I believe that this depends on individual there some guys who prefer a cool perfume to anything else there also some who love it when you get them food and so on so it's better to take your time is studying who your guy is and what he might like.

but try go for cheap guys hahahahah hahahahah hahahahah hahahahah.

Exactly my point.😂 as for me I don’t want cheap guys oh.😂😂😂

I don't know why is always like that ,most ladies out want guys to be doing all the gifting without them doing same ,ladies enhhh

😂😂😂what is a married man doing in this comment session? Leave this one for the small boys, you saf be big boss with better wife. You don’t have problem. 🫡

A watch is a great gift for guys.

Most guys don't even need much as a gift. We can make do with the simple things, as long as it's not boxer shorts and singlets😂

😂😂😂 wahala for guys this year. You will complain and the girls won’t get you anything because you said you don’t want boxers.

I also don’t think it’s that hard to find something for a guy. But from the way you are talking, seems you have so much experience

Lemme get my notebook and get down all the points

😂😂😂 you need to pay consultation fee first.

Ahah
For your brother’s sake 🌝

😂😂now you know my brother.

Oh I don’t

But if it will get me what I want, I will pretend I do😂

😂😂😂my friend

Wow 😮, it's not difficult to gift a guy, I don't know who invented these boxers and singlet things, that person wanted to choke her guy with boxers. Guys also love gifts because they don't emphasize them like we do, which doesn't mean they wouldn't want them. I've learned to be gifting my guy with expensive things as he gifts me. Let the table balance.

The table really needs to be balanced. Guys also deserve nice thing.😄
Thanks for passing by.😄

I still believe men are the easiest gender to gift and surprise. They don't get to receive it often, so when they do, it means so much to them A they appreciate it.

Some ladies are stingy and even if they have, still won't spend on their man but will expect a good return from them during theirs. Having that mindset of "I'm a lady, I should be pampered".

Pampering men is such a big deal for them and they carry it on their head like puff puff 😂😂😂

😂seriously. Most men are not used to being treated nicely so once you treat them differently they will just stick to you like gum.

Our men should say no to stingy women.😅

Honestly, women should spend on the amazing men in their lives. Men deserve better too.

Agreed.😄

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