Hello friends in ladies of hive Community, I read the topic writing challenge in Ladies of Hive Community Contest #182 with admin @ladiesofhive. I am interested in choosing the second topic, namely :
Contrary to question 1, despite how strong your work may be, do you take it as an escape from the everyday tasks of the home?
In my opinion, when a woman is not married, she has a sweet or even very bitter life (depending on the conditions she lives in). Living without marriage ties, yes without ties that make a woman free to express herself without caring about her husband's feelings and good name. But in my opinion, a woman who already has the ability to get married and she doesn't want to get married, then that woman is not called "perfect". A woman who has been successful with her career and love life (having a partner) is a very lucky woman, she is successful with her career and also her love.
After getting married, many women throw away their life's dreams and only rely on their husbands to support them. Many women throw away the opportunity to continue their master's education or to advance in position/career, for various reasons, to build the perfect dream family, a woman is willing to abandon her own dreams.
After marriage, through various unwritten rules in society, a woman who has the title "wife", is functioned to do household tasks such as washing, cooking and doing housework. So as time goes by a wife has household duties like a servant. Even though a wife does housework because of her love for her partner, not because she is obliged to do all the household work. **A woman's great love for her partner and children can overpower her love for herself and her dreams
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So in my opinion, the answer to the question, whether a woman does work because she wants to escape from her daily work at home is an inaccurate opinion. When a woman chooses to work outside the home and develop a career, this is a form of self-expression, not an escape from housework.
So once again I emphasize, a woman who is married and chooses to work outside the home is a form of self-expression, not a form of escape from home duties. Because a married couple must be a couple who truly has a commitment to building a better life together, not "outsmarting" each other for their respective lives. I personally chose to be a wife, mother and also develop my career as a science teacher in junior high school. No matter how hard my job as a teacher is, this is my personal choice to pursue my dreams, not as an escape from daily homework.
If a woman has committed to doing outside work (career), no matter how hard the work is, a woman will work for the family she loves, not as a form of escape from home duties.Because women's feelings are subtle, they make them tough creatures who can also work to develop their careers and on the other hand do housework. All of these jobs can be done simultaneously, especially nowadays, there are many conveniences in carrying out life, such as housemaid services, cooking services, picking up children and others. That is the importance of women also having a good education and financial life, so that women can express themselves, not run away.
Thank you friends for reading my post.
Best Regards
@umirais
